Being an ally

Sometimes what we need is not an ally but a friend.

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Not every person needs every person to be an ally at all times. Sometimes it is more helpful to be a friend than an ally. I say this as a visible minority writer but not out of being a visible minority writer.  Nor do I speak for all visible minorities, minorities in general or people in general. Iโ€™m not trying to be the spokesperson for anyone but me. But I would hope that you can take what I say and apply it to others where propper or at the least take a moment to think.

I will say we all need allies. Minorities especially precisely because we are minorities. Being a minority means being in the lesser number of a group, this by definition means having less allies than another group. Having allies helps when the odds are stacked against you or even with the odds in your favor; it means youโ€™re not alone or your group is not by itself. This can help in verifying that youโ€™re on the right path.

Not everyone who is with you can be an ally though. And not everyone you support needs you to be an ally. Allies fight together. If you canโ€™t fight, having you as an ally does not do much good. Allies go to battle together, go to war together. If you are only an ally when the stakes are low or if youโ€™re only an ally for a moment youโ€™re not much of an ally.

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Friends are different. Friends are there for you when the fighting ends. Thatโ€™s not to say friends canโ€™t be allies. If all your friends arenโ€™t your allies and vice versa you might want to take a look at your relationships but you can have some allies that arenโ€™t your friend and some friends who are not your allies, at least not in every fight.

Iโ€™m not everyoneโ€™s ally. Iโ€m not even a lot of peopleโ€™s ally. I can be a lot of peopleโ€™s friend or at least friendly to a lot of people, which is almost as good, especially these days. I am not going to fight all the battles with you, even if I agree with you. And this may be a shock but sometimes I donโ€™t agree with people. Sometimes even with people I am friendly with. Many people are looking for allies, someone to go in the trenches with, their ride or die; especially on social media, where the price of fighting is not that high. Iโ€™m not that guy most of the time. I have my own battles Iโ€™m fighting, Iโ€™m not a big fight guy, also many of the fights or the way youโ€™re fighting are not that significant. Yes, I agree with your right to do and be you, no I donโ€™t need to shout at some guy over the computer, no I donโ€™t need to socially isolate them. Those are not battle tactics I see as being real difference makers. So, no, Iโ€™m not your ally in this fight. 

Now I can be your friend. I can help you commiserate over the amount of assholes in the world. I can listen to your point of view and agree where I agree and respect our differences. I can offer a distraction or amusement. I can bring a smile to your face. Friend type things.

I know you arenโ€™t going to be there for my every battle as well. Our circles are small, a tight knit group or various tight knit groups bound by our love of a singular event/opinion/characteristic. These are my allies. You, you are my friend. You are the one I can share a joke with. I can count on you for a random like. Youโ€™ll read my bullshit with a smile. 

You are someone I need. Not an ally, but a friend. 

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The Dream

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Twisting, turning, hot passion in the night. Alone but together. They reach towards each other the miles separating them torn apart by the dream. Their touch is fire, hot and burning. The ice running through their veins sending steam in the air. They are hot and cold, heat and cool, opposites attracted by more than magnetism, stronger than any pull.

Her lips touch his and they burn and burst, his tongue slides in her mouth and floods her with emotion. She reaches and pulls him into her. They merge and are one. Their bodies move with a mind of it’s own. Animal instinct fueled by human intellect charged with powerful emotion. Suns shine cold in comparison to their radiation.

His hands on her neck, followed by his kiss. She turns taking him, guiding him flowing beneath his hands as he takes her where she needs to be. He fills her even though he isn’t there. He holds her in his heart, in a warmth, a cradle, a protection of love, where she fits like no other. She’s made herself not at home but made it part of her.

He sees her as she is and sees light. Beauty fades as he looks in her eyes. He sees neither old nor young but eternity. He longs to spend eternity looking in her eyes, holding her hand. She looks back and sees the reflection of him in her eyes. He is her vision. The sight she sees is him. In the sky, the trees, the city line. They are him, he has taught her to see, opened her eyes, shined in her world. She closes her eyes and sees him. The depth of him. His soul.

The light fades through the morning and they retreat from the dream. Her body tingles with the touch of his fingertips. His body aches with his need. Their conscious floats then they sink into each others respective homes. This corporal shell this fragile place. She looks. He’s lying beside her again. She closes her eyes and sleeps.


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Lesson to Learn

(Lesbian Spanking)


The curve of her ass appeals
So soft and round with delight
The joy I feel reveals
Under my hands I squeeze
โ€œYour ass is mine tonight.โ€

Your eyes so soft gaze
Up into the brown of mine
โ€œMake me squeal.โ€ you beg.
My answer, a grin I give,
โ€œIt would be my delight.โ€

Our lips they touch soft
Then hard hunger escapes
I bite and pull
Your tongue it snakes looking
For mine
We moan.

Over my knee I lead you there
The swell of your ass bare in the air
Bare hand or paddle I ponder
As you breast press against my leg
You wiggle and whimper
Your eyes they beg

โ€œShould I risk my nails?โ€ 
I ask in mock disdain
Though the heat that flows from between my legs
Iโ€™m sure you feel 

โ€œA paddle for sure would make me squealโ€
Tsk. Tsk. 
Question, not asked for your answer
This you know.
Not your first rodeo.

โ€œGo get the gag.โ€
Your eyes wide with fright
Or is that merely merriment and delight?
You kneel between my legs
Your back to my front
Head high with anticipation,
Proud submission 

The curve of back is such a seductive delight
My painted nail drags between your shoulder blade
My breath a whisper in your ear 
I clasp the gag
โ€œYour ass is mine
My dear delight
To turn pink
Then red so bright.โ€

Now over my knee
I direct again
My hand it is
Though paddle is close at hand

A soft caress of your soft behind
So round and plump
So proud and divine

One squeeze then two before
A smack!  Then three!
The blush of heat 
Rises degree by degree

Your moans muffled as your ass you raise
Your desire for more belies your pain
Give to me what is mine by right
The right of wrongs done in anticipation
Of correction

My hand finds your flesh
The sound 
A hymn we both praise

Wetness builds between my legs
With each strike and cry
The heat of your struck behind
Matches the heat of the furnace between my legs
Waiting to be stroked,
Stoked, by your tongue

The heat burns too bright for my gentle hands to handle
My passion burns too hot to sit tight

Get up! On the bed!

I pull you off my lap, 
Soaked with our mixture of delight
To throw you face down 
Pressed into our place of rest
A den of debauchery 
Covered in 1000 thread count

Your ass, hot pink, hangs over the side
Paddle in hand
Swing and connect
Squeels elicit fly from your lips
Escape from your throat 
Cantillate my ears
Invoked by wood on cutis

What once was pink 
Now flames in red
Eyes once dry with worry
Flow in tears; rivers of relief
Desire once bundled within
Engulfs us, an inferno

My flesh no longer contained in cloth
Naked to the air
My hands grip your hips
I push labia dew covered
Onto the swell of your derriere
Our combined fires offer soothing fuel
Slick sheen glazes your honeyed buns
As guttural moans cry out

I need your sweet lips on me
Crawling onto our bed
I pull you into my delta of flame
Mouth released to feast
Fill me as you feed

Your tongue, your lips,
Your skill, your talent
Your passion, desire and love
Each swipe and lick
Each suck draws me in
Satisfying the hungry fire deep inside me

As you give all to me
I can feel myself burn and turn to ash
Floating as smoke upon our loverโ€™s pyre
I release
And float away 

Laying in each otherโ€™s arms
Smiles and arms embrace
Gentle caress of fingers 

I hope you learned your lesson?

Oh yes
My Ass Is Yours
Always

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Ocean Fire’s Kiss

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Turn around, let me see 
The fire in your eyes
The double sun setting in the sea.
As I admire your curves 
Twists and turns
Driving full speed ahead.

An undeniable body language
Chemistry was conducted
Causing sparks between two souls 
wind high in their sails.
Waves crashed on land
Settling beneath our feet
Toes bury in water soaked sand 
Just as our lips are buried within each other.

Kisses wet with desire
Hold our breath captive 
Beneath the ocean of our love
On the shore I wait
Longing for the tide to return you to my arms.

Desire is the fire burning.
A wildfire blazing in the night.
On the shore water meets land
Steaming yet never quenched
Burning higher ever bright

Our bodies are set alight
Unable to control urges of pure delight
Willing to take a chance at intimate passion
We seek solace in each otherโ€™s eyes

Deeply
Seductively
Itching with temptation
Aching with anticipation

Let our lips kiss beneath the pale moon
As we embrace in a lovers flame

This was a collaboration between myself and @kitkatpoetess on Twitter. Follow her on Twitter for more fantastic poetry and fiction or check out her page at: https://katrinalippolis.weebly.com/


Fornication’s Fire is a collection of 30 erotic poems that feature thoughts and actions dealing with fornication. An act of passion, desire, duty, even resignation. All aspects of sexual intercourse are looked at in this hot and fun collection of poems.

One Night Stands

I’ve never had a one night stand. I have a story that involves a one night stand. It’s an unexpected but not so unexpected one night stand. One night stands have had a reputation of being somewhat controversial; especially for women. The dichotomy of reactions is strange considering in a heterosexual relationship it takes a man and woman but nothing new about double standards there.

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A lot of the stigma about one night stands is the prudishness of sex in general and the taking advantage of expectations. If one person goes in knowing that there is no hope or desire for anything more than one night of sex and the other goes in thinking that there may be the opportunity for more then there is an obvious miscommunication at best at worst manipulation and exploitations.

 I can see the appeal on one hand. Itโ€™s a quick opportunity for sex. No emotional attachment, little to no (hopefully) repercussions. Get your rocks off your jillies and boom itโ€™s done. No strings.  I rather like strings. lol  I also like to know a person before having sex. Would I have a one night stand? Probably. If the right circumstances presented themselves but more likely than not it wouldnโ€™t happen.

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I can see why not on the other. You’re putting your body and emotions into an experience with someone you just met. Do you really know that person? Is it safe? This is sex in general though. Sex between two people is an exchange at it’s most base between two people’s bodies and emotions. Do you have to have that connection? Must you know them per se? No, I don’t think it’s a requirement for sex. For some yes, of course, for others no. It does not make one right or better than the other.

So what about the one night stand? Well, that is the thing. It’s a unique situation, as are most situations. Which makes it such a good fit for writing. You can deal with the emotional weight, or you can just have a purely physical action or the stigma and how they deal with it. It can be used to show your character’s personality or their relationships. So hurrah to the one night stand. Do so with your eyes open, honest communication and aware of potential conflicts. For us writers it’s a great devise.


What to get a MILF on Mother’s Day?

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What to get a MILF on her special day? A box of chocolates cream filled so she’ll think of your special love or maybe roses covered with dew to show her what you’re thinking of? How can you show her that special feeling you have? The kind of love that says bend over and pull your panties down?

What a pity it is that Hallmark doesn’t have a card. To show the one you’re lusting for that you want to fill her up. Dinner won’t do it if you can’t make her dessert. A poem just isn’t flattery if you can’t put in a flirt. Nothing out there says “Happy Mother’s Day now take off that fucking skirt”.

What if your MILF has a kinky side? Do you get her whips with little pink bows tied? Can handcuffs say thanks for all that you have done in raising a daughter or son? Do you put her over your knee and spank her as she once might have done? Maybe you suspend her in that rope harness you made, while you sing her praises with your very own serenade?

Ahh what to get a MILF for a happy Mother’s day? Oh what is this? She’s come to me. She just wants to get laid!

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY TO ALL THE SEXY MOTHER’S OUT THERE WHO JUST WANT TO GET LAID! ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‚